Sunday, September 28, 2014

Movie review: This is Where I Leave You

Directed by: Jonathan Tropper
Starring: Jason Bateman, Tina Fey, Jane Fonda

Grade: A-

This movie certainly exceeded my expectations. I initially thought this would be a silly comedy about a dysfunctional family. Instead it was a funny drama with all the right ingredients.

It was refreshingly new to see Bateman and Fey in such a serious movie where their humor is understated. The moments are there and it is definitely funny, but in a more reserved way. It is an excellent display of control by the director. This is of course not to say that the two have never been in a non-funny movie. However, it is nice to see their comedy as a well-sharpened plot-advancing tool.


Through the movie, I found myself rooting for and against the appropriate characters. I felt their sorrows and discomfort and laughed along as the family used humor to cope with their tragedy. Well done.

Friday, September 26, 2014

Old people at the #/SocialShakeUp

 I made an interesting observance at the recent Social Media Today Shakeup in Atlanta, there were a lot of older attendees. I don’t mean there were a lot of geriatric patients attending the sessions alongside the Millenials, but there were more Baby Boomers and older Gen X’ers than I thought there would be.

Another conference attendee tweeted the question of whether this was a trend. It is an interesting question to ponder. Did the presence of so many people of older generations indicate Millenials are leaving the profession, moving on to different roles within companies?

I believe there is another explanation.  The comment was made during an introduction that the shakeup comprised of many business founders, CEOs and other C-suite and management people. I think the presence of the older attendees indicates that companies are starting to take social media more seriously. They now have designated positions, managers, and departments, or at least a more involved role in marketing and public relations departments.

There is greater buy-in to the idea that social cannot be ignored. It is a great place to market ideas, products, and services, but it is also a necessary tool for managing customer experiences and brands. The people in charge have been sold on the idea of a social marketplace and the opportunity to reach more people, including Millenials and the creative class. These are two groups of people who are very comfortable with using technology and digital for almost everything they need to get done.


So, there are not fewer Millenials in these positions, but more managers and upper levels who are interested in learning the lessons the industry is so hungry for.

Thursday, September 25, 2014

The best of the #SocialShakeUp

The 2014 Social Shakeup is the first of the Social MediaToday conferences for me, actually it is the first conference I have attended as a guest. I was not disappointed.

I was excited in the days and weeks leading up to the conference. There would be so many great opportunities to learn and grow as a social media strategist. The breakout sessions looked very interesting. And better yet, they would be taught and led by some of the industry’s top practitioners. Still, I didn’t create any illusions or expectations of what I thought I would learn (exactly), do, or people I would meet. The source of all pain in life is expectations. A motto to live by and the reason I was not misled on the benefits of this gathering.

I was quite pleased with the conference and I have compiled a list of my eight favorite things about the Shakeup.

Industry leading ideas
The speakers and participants both discussed industry leading thoughts and ideas, such as whether social is dead. I appreciated being surrounded by so many minds that ponder such questions, I, as well as many other attendees, am not able to get this sort of thought provoking dialog out of a normal work day.

Breakout session panels
These were led by and facilitated by the industry’s top practitioners. They offered examples, best practices, and advice. Plus when taking a question from the audience, there were multiple answers from different view points. Most of the sessions also summed things up with one top takeaway form each panelist.

While I did not feel every session was as beneficial and relevant as the rest, all provided piggyback ideas and the opportunity to hop out and join another more fitting breakout group.
 
Layers of networking
Networking and social media go hand in hand at this type of conference. The opportunities to connect with people are much more than the typical opportunity. In addition to meeting and speaking with some great minds, we were able to also network on Twitter using #socialshakeup. This meant that I was able to connect with more people than it would be possible to meet and connect with people who had thought provoking insights on the conference, as seen on Twitter.


Following the conversation
A streaming feed of the comments and thoughts of fellow attendees and speakers at the shakeup provided valuable insight. Via that hashtag on twitter, attendees were able to follow the conversation and see a summary of key points.

This came in handy when it came to the breakout sessions. People could use this as a gauge to decide which of the other rooms they should slide into when they had given up on their own.

Also, people could use it to glean important points and notes from the sessions they couldn’t make it to or had to miss. I often looked at the feed during the day and afterward to see if there was any great insight I missed out on. Allows us to be in more places at one time.

The pacing of the event
I never felt rushed or hurried in getting from one agenda item to the next. Things were very well paced. The breakout sessions were just long enough, although I felt as if there was plenty to keep talking about if the groups were allowed to run amok. It gave just the right taste of the topic. Lunch was long enough for eating, networking, and device charging.

While I felt exhausted at night after the events had ended, it was not because I was running around like crazy all day. Rather, the exhaustion came from taking in all of the ideas and possibilities that were discussed that day. It was a happy and content exhaustion.

 The delicious food
It has been my experience that conference-goers typically get pastries and fruit for breakfast and boxed lunches that center on an average sandwich for their meals. That was not the case here! I was pleasantly surprised by the food. At first I thought it was a fluke that I was getting a breakfast burrito with my fruit that first morning. However, lunch came around and I munched on salad with a peach dressing, green beans, mac n’ cheese, and catfish. Excellent! Day two was no less stellar. Social Media Today took care of its conference goers by having meals sponsored by a company, which meant they were able to serve us better food.

 Great location
Sure, I wondered why a social media conference was being held in Atlanta. There are a number of top national and even global companies there, but is it tops when it comes to social media and tech ideas?

I decided to reserve judgement on this. After all, this was the second year for the Social Shakeup, and the conference was also held in Atlanta the year before, so the southern city must have something to offer.

I did not choose to attend the sessions that spoke on Atlanta and technology and what has been done to make the city more social. However, there were representatives from quite a few companies that are headquartered there. These people aided in the conversation and represented the social virtues of the city.

The hotel
The conference is held in the elegantly swank and luxuriously comfy W Midtown hotel. The staff was very curious and attentive. Their Whatever/Whenever policy is refreshing.

I did not use their roof top bar, although the conference did have a reception there and it is said to be very nice. I also did not use the workout room or the spa, but those are also available. As a bonus, there is a wet deck on the fifth floor where people can sit back and relax as though they are at a resort and are not actually in a city.

The view from my room was great, 17th floor. My quarters were spacious, complete with a giant bed, a wrap chaise, and a desk/t.v. area. Additionally, there was the dressing room/entry way and an open bathroom with a soothing shower. I was very pleased with my stay.


The 2014 Social Shakeup was a success in my mind. It left little to be desired and made me excited about the possibilities of next year’s London conference. However, I would be remiss if I led readers to believe everything was perfect on my trip.

  • My name badge was wrong on both days. I had emailed weeks before asking if I could change the company that would be listed below my name since the old was bought by a new company and dissolved. I was told this would not be a problem. After the first day’s events I told the worker at the registration desk about the error and he said they should be able to print an accurate badge for me for the next day. That did not happen. Oh well, this was really a non-event.
  • The mid-afternoon snack on the first day featured large soft pretzels. They looked so yummy, glistening with their butter brushed glow. There were not enough. I was about three back in the line when they ran out. I told myself they were probably gross and dry and I was better off for having missed it.
  • Lastly, the conference area was cold. Mostly noticeable in the main room where we met for breakfast, keynotes, lunch, and afternoon speakers. This seems to be an industry thing though. The office I work in also has convention space and the office manager likes to keep it cold. I don’t really understand this because it makes people uncomfortable. I hear people in my work building complaining. I shivered a little upon first entering the main conference room at the shake-up. But it is something I got used to.



Like I said, none of these complaints was anything earth shattering, harmful, or worth much fuss. However, what kind of reviewer would I be if I didn’t present the other side? Overall, this is a positive review!

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Book review: Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me

Let me start off by saying that I think Mindy Kaling is hilarious. In Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me, she has a way of describing situations in a way that makes me envision her going through the drama. Notice, I did not say makes me feel like I am there or any other type of statement of relatability. Mindy does not remind me of myself in anyway, but she does make me think of a crazy wacky friend that I would have, that would totally act that way.

While I don’t envision myself being engaged in most of the actions in the book, I do daydream and dream up disaster scenarios, as described by Mindy as an exercise coping mechanism. I usually imagine what would happen if I got hurt while working out. How I would continue on with my day/plans, would the dude on the elliptical next to me help get me to first aid, would I still be able to grab Taco Bell for lunch like I had planned, etc.


I am also a fan of The Mindy Project, which is the t.v. show that is amusingly painted with the wit and whimsy of Mindy’s humor. It is something of a spectacle, and I think that is why I like it. It is like a harmless train wreck. No one is hurt and no one is uncomfortable other than the characters in the fictional show, and they do a pretty swell job of coping. I am very glad I just happened upon the hilarious season three premiere and I plan to continue watching.

Monday, September 22, 2014

Wedding weight loss

If you have a plan to lose weight for a wedding, how do you expect to keep it off? Or do you expect to?


The goal in this case is limited. Sure, it is actionable, measurable, and has a timeline, but then what? What happens in the six months after the ceremony? If the stated goal is to lose weight for an event instead of changing a lifestyle to be healthier, it will be much easier to fall off the wagon.


So many of these such diets are calorie restrictive and focus on deprivation. The dieter decides to cut out their favorite foods and unhappily count the days until they are off the diet. Crash! All of a sudden the dieter is able to eat those foods again, and will, in force.

I’ve seen people go on these pre wedding diets and/or exercise bootcamps so they can lose weight and not look like themselves. Some of these people haven’t been so thin in years. Some may have never been as thin. Isn’t it more important for you to enjoy your day and look like yourself rather than revel in shocked compliments from guests. I guess the photographs are more important to these people than the memory of the actual process or simply being in the moment. A goal is a goal, this one is just not one I would have.

Saturday, September 20, 2014

Being unapologetically good

One thing I have decided to work on is being unapologetically good. I often find myself making excuses for the nice things I do. I'm not talking about holding a door open for someone, but when I volunteer, give blood, recycle (I do a lot of green things), or do other responsible actions. I guess I have felt that I needed to brush off the significance of these acts because there are so many people in the world who don't do them and in an effort to make my contributions appear to be less outstanding I will write it off by saying something like, "oh well I had the extra time," or "well I do it with my friends."

I realized this mechanism recently after telling someone that I spent my Saturday morning volunteering at a food bank. I wasn't boasting. It was a response to someone asking me what I had been up to that day. The friend stated that he felt sheepish (in the face of my good deeds) and I dismissed his comment and moved on. As if I am not comfortable talking about lending a helping hand.

I realized this mechanism recently after telling someone that I spent my Saturday morninesponse to someone asking me what I had been up to that day. The friend stated that he felt sheepish (in the face of my good deeds) and I dismissed his comment and moved on. As if I am not comfortable talking about lending a helping hand.

I don't always use these defenses, but I definitely need to use them less. I actually don't need to say anything to account for my actions. I certainly don't need to diminish them as being unimportant because that lessens the significance of good deeds to those I am talking to. If I don't make these excuses and explanations maybe others will start doing more. A better response to the above comment on volunteering at the food bank would have been to suggest that he do some volunteer work. I will work on this and using my deeds to encourage others.

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Movie review: Lucy

Movie review: Lucy

Directed by: Luc Besson
Starring: Scarlett Johansson, Morgan Freeman

Rating: B-

This was a very interesting movie, to say the least. Eye opening. Thought provoking. At first, the flashes to animals in a forest many, many years ago may seem odd. Then you come to realize that it aids in telling the story, and this is no ordinary story with a typical, formulaic plot line. This movie navigates ideas on which scientists are only able to scratch the surface. It brings cognitive potential into the realm of understanding.

Lucy is basically abducted and drugs are planted in her body, she is turned into a mule. Something happens and the drugs leak and she finds herself on her own. I say “something” because I do not want to ruin the movie for you. The viewer is witness to the progression of her brain development as she seeks revenge for the predicament she was so violently put into. We watch as she is able to do more, control more, and understand more.

What happens in the end may be believable, depending on your point of view. It is impossible for any of us to know what would truly happen when 100% mental capacity is achieved. The way it is depicted in this movie may seem like an easy way out (perhaps the screen writer ran out of ideas?) because it seems so pedestrian and logical to what our brains are able to comprehend. However, that may be the design. We wouldn’t be able to understand or follow much more and neither would the characters in the movie, who are witnessing the transformation. Whatever happens at 100% cognition has to be something that the human mind can absorb if there is any hope that that person will follow, which in this case is the goal of Lucy, for the world to benefit from her knowledge.


This is a movie that definitely stays with a person, however not for superb acting (although it was not bad) or through excellent in directing (again not bad). This movie is memorable due to the nature of the content. It makes people think and wonder about concepts that are theoretical in nature.  This movie is entertaining and action packed. The viewer, in between wondering about the themes of the film, is in awe over what Lucy is capable of and what she will do next. This is great for anyone who loves action and anyone who is looking for a little more than the typical adrenalin packed movie.